10 clues to look out for if you should stay with someone

Good morning,

Not too long ago, I spoke about some things to look out for in a partner before you decide to get married. Well, I may have jumped the gun and skipped a step. What about the things you look for when finding the ideal partner? Obviously this step comes before marrying them!

Here are my top 10 tips for you:

1. Make sure you connect spiritually. The person must make you feel like you evolve spiritually when you are with them.

2. Don’t be with someone you can talk too, be with someone you can’t stop talking to. The conversations must be grounding, amazing, entertaining and include EVERYTHING.

3. Be sure they are there when you need them. The whole of having a partner is knowing when the whole world seems against them, you are there! Even at 3am in the morning and you are dreaming sweet dreams.

4. Make sure they understand you. If they cannot get into your shoes and feel the pain you feel on the path you have walked. Forget it.

5. Do the time test. If they keep you waiting. You are obviously not worth their time.

6. Do the space test. If you were a thousand miles away, will they be willing to drive all that way just to see you smile? When you take the test make sure you book a return flight just in case! Sh!t happens.

7. Challenge them to take you on a date without spending a cent. If they can’t be creative and spontaneous, you going to a boring happy ever after.

8. Make sure they kiss well.

9. Do they message or call you before you do? If you think about this, drop it now!

10. Meet the parents. You will discover all your partners dirty habits like a crash course on them! You will know then if you wanna keep dating them.

Happy loving, Happy boinking 😉 :p

Love,
H