Hello my friends,
Today’s message is one very close to me. I write this from the South West corner of my heart.
The idea that you gain and lose love, is the biggest lie that you have been fed. Your experience of having and not having is a perceptual one, which is co-related to how much guilt & fear vs how much love & gratitude you feel. Anytime you have love and gratitude fill you heart – you are connected. Connected to what??? Connected to yourself, Connected to God, Connected to every human being you have known, know, and will know. In other words, there is this eternal bond you share with people. Even if you feel that you are not experiencing love, know that the love you seek is on its way. Rumi says it so beautifully, “What you seek is seeking you.”
Everyone you meet is a perfect expression of that part of you which you either express or suppress. So there is no running away from yourself. The truth is that when there is love flowing through you, its mandated by the law of the universe, that love flow to you! However you must keep CONNECTED. If you believe you have lost, you will experience “loss” You will experience loneliness, you will experience separation, you will experience heart break.
If time and space are both illusions as I have talked about you before. Then isn’t it true to say, that even if the person you love is in Dubai, in another country miles away, and it would take you 7 hours to get there…THEN..you are actually always with them? And that as I always say, Love is the bridge that connects you to I, therefore we say I love you. Love is always present. Love is so beautiful and love never hurts.
Treasure each moment you have with someone, and be present in the moment that you share with them. I once spent a day with the most amazing person.
Before I left, I said to her, “I have spent 8 hours with you today. In some place in this universe, time is moving so fast that the past 8 hours, was a lifetime and if we were there, I have just spent a lifetime with you, and I will never have it any other way. I love you”
True lovers never go in search of each other, because true lovers know that each other already is within them. If you get that, you will be awed.
I love you,
H