How we lie to ourselves…

How many times have you said to yourself “I wish I had time for my family or I wish I had time to play soccer with my friends”
or a variation of the above?

No time hey? Life is just too busy? I mean I have I no idea what u have going on in your life right? Where are you going to find the time??

Let me tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Human beings behave in exact accordance to their values. You honor your highest value first and find excuses to not honor the your lowest values. In other words, you always find the TIME, SPACE and ENERGY for the things you LOVE. There are no excuses. You are never too busy to do what you love or spend time with people you love.
So while you might THINK you love your family, are you spending time with them? Or is work and career higher on your values? Remember there is no judgment on you. U are not a bad person based on what you value more. But it helps you really understand who you are, and what you values are. As Dr Demartini says, “the heirachy of your values, dictate your destiny”

What is really awesome is that you can reprioritise your value, and shift them to live the life your want. BUT I ask you not to be frustrated that you do not have time to do the things you love. Because the truth is, you already are doing the things you love. Human beings love being victims. Its great to not live out dreams and complain about how miserable our lives are. Well, that’s what we lie to ourselves. Little to we know, the greatest joy lies in living out our heart’s desires.

So stop lying. Get real about your life. Stop making excuses.

Here’s an important realistion:
You have not got what you always wanted, because if you really wanted it, you would have already got it.

Love,
H