It is what it is, stop labeling it

I ask 2 very controversial and thought provoking questions at my “30 Life Changing Laws” seminar. It is to explain the Law of Perception and the Power of Now and making the “right” choice.

Question 1: A baby boy fell into a pool and is drowning. Do you jump into the pool and save him?

10/10 people say YES. I then ask the following question.

Question 2: That very baby boy, 20 years later, grows up and rapes your daughter. Should you have saved his life?

10/10 go quiet. It isn’t a question you answer. But there’s a big lesson in that powerful question.

You cannot really say if you are making the best or right decision. You can only decide in this moment what feels “right” to you and do that. If body, mind and heart say YES do it. It might hurt later, but it was what you needed. Trust that.
Do not beat yourself over choices you made in the past. Unfortunately you cannot rewrite history, and honestly, neither can you really write the future.
I think we write the scripts to our lives but some higher being (director, producer, God) edits it. So don’t be rigid in the way you want life to be. Have a vision but be open to changes to that vision. A life that is predictable is damn boring. Spontaneity and Mystery make life an adventure.

There isn’t right or wrong. Just what is, now. Only now. Stop labelling and judging everything. Can a cup of tea be a cup of tea instead of being a cup of tea your ex partner used to make for you? Be here with the cup of tea. Not in the future or past, and see it, as it is. Just a cup of tea.
Substitute cup of tea with anything else in your life.

I love you so much.

Love,
H