Who am I to speak on Love

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A friend said to me last night, “What right do you have to speak on relationships and love when you are single?”

I would like to post a reply here:

1. If you think a relationship involves 2 people you are wrong. Your relationship is about you and a reflection of you.

2. No person is in a relationship all their life. You don’t sleep for 24 hours, you don’t work for 24 hours, neither do you eat for 24 hours. So why do you think all you life you could possibly be in a relationship? Even marriages takes breaks. You do not even know it when it happens.

3. The best authors on relationships have gone though divorce and messy relationships and still do. This only means they are not immune to the human experience and emotions.

4. You can’t have it right all the time, but you can have it right most of the time.

5. People are unpredictable (usually). You do not know when the next break up is coming. It is not a job. You do not have 30 days notice.

6. I said this before. Being single doesn’t “rock” anymore than being in a relationship “rocks”. There are benefits to drawbacks equally to both.

7. Single means complete. You go into a relationship to share your completeness not to become complete. I am complete.

8. I teach people how to find love and keep in love. People think this means “how to stay with someone forever.” No. It means how to be inspired. Spirit is love. To be in love is to be inspirit. Inspired.

Love,
Mohan H

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