There is nothing and no one in our reality that is not a reflection of what we are. We only see things (situations) or people that reflect our inner most dominant thoughts. Think of people in your life like mirrors. When we do this, we come to see that no one does anything to us, that we do not do to other people or we do not do to ourselves – either consciously or unconsciously.
We then lose the victim role and stop blaming other people for what they do to us. When we look into the “mirror” we see that which we are, that which we judge and that which we deny ourselves to be. You will inituially see things which you will deny that are in you. Are you mean, nasty, cold, bitter, bitchy, stubborn, irritating, close minded….etc? Are you? Maybe not ALL THE TIME, but in some cases you are. These characteristics are not in the person that you see it in ALL THE TIME as well. It is only there at certain times. You will also notice that people show up in your reality around things that you judge. If you judge people who are too fanatic about their religion, you are sure to find them plenty in your reality.
They will always show up until you let go of the judgment and respect and love the people or situation. Like I always say – the Universe is only trying to get you to love yourself and to see love all around you. It will do whatever it takes to get you to do this. It will FORCE you to love. All prayer is answered, just never in the form that we want it in. What you see in another is in you. If you see success in another – that means that very success lies in you. You too have the ability to tap into this greatness that lies within you and live your best life. It would not be there if it wasn’t in you. Feels great knowing that you can be as successful as Bill Gates or Donald Trump!
Pay attention to happens and what you see when you are feeling terrible. Notice what you see when you have your heart broken? How many people around you have relationship issues? Notice what you see when you feeling down? How many people around you suddenly have more problems? Notice what you see when you feeling excited to be alive? How many people are smiling and friendly towards you?
You are that which you see…this is a magical law of the universe. I am certain this little message will help you understand your universe better.
I love you always, Hitesh