Good Morning,
This is something I have never spoken about before. Most of it is through me and not from me. Read with an open mind.
Human beings have 6 basic fears. Probably the top of that list, is the Fear of Death.
This is not just a fear of you dying, but a fear of someone you know dying.
We witness humans being born, we also witness them die. What an illusion. Our entire Universe is an illusion. Birth and death is not real, inasmuch as the sun rising and setting is not real. Its an illusion. The sun never rises or sets, it sits still in the center of our solar system. Neither are we born or die. We existed before birth and exist after birth, that is because we always were and always will be. Just as the sun rises and sets endlessly, so too we experience birth and death endlessly.
When we “die” we actually feel more alive. In fact we don’t even know we are dead. Nothing really happens at the point your soul leaves your body, except that you senses become 1000x better. Colours more vivid, smells more richer, sounds more clear, touch more magical. There is a connectedness to all. Then your next journey continues…
The experience of the Death of someone brings a lot of pain as well as suffering. There is a physical pain you cannot ignore and an emotional suffering that tortures.
But pain and suffering are mostly self inflicted. It comes through our own doing and our thoughts and beliefs surrounding death.
Let’s get real, no matter what, you must “die.” That is, you must leave this body sometime. No one gets out of this earthly plane alive! So death awaits for us all, each breath we take, look over your shoulder cos death is a step closer. Its inevitable. No one is in your life forever. Not you wife, your mother, your best friend or your chauffeur. The moment we begin a relationship with someone, we must prepare for the day it ends. Be attached to NOTHING. Attachment is the cause of all suffering. That’s why my previous book is titled, “Let go & Let’s Go – The art of living free” Freedom is the detachment of everything. When you are free, you cannot suffer.
How does one prepare to let go?
The first step is acknowledging this will end someday.
The next is saying and doing what you what with that person. Do not have regrets!
The third step is knowing there are no goodbyes. Treat every goodbye like the last. And you can only do that if you treat every hello like a first.
The forth step is a knowing that the bond you share is love. Love is beyond time and space. You may feel temporary separated from the person. But love still connects you both. In fact the person that dies is more in contact with you now, than before.
The fifth step is knowing your time must come and you will be reunited with them.
The sixth step is being conscious and aware of the all the things this person used to give you that now becomes present in one or more individuals. Who is giving you their time? Making you laugh? Hugging you? Nothing is ever lost, only transformed. The Universe never takes without giving and vice versa. Everything is always present.
You have angels watching over you. Guiding you from the other side. Helping you make the remainder of your own life a little more pleasant.
Never forget someone. They have not forgotten you. Keep them alive in your heart and memories. I think we make people more dead than they really are.
Someone you know may need this, pass this message on.
Love,
H
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