Good morning!
I am at a wedding today…
Weddings are usually about finding out who still isnt married, eating some food or complaining about food, and dressing up in that outfit you paid a fortune for and never have a chance to wear.
BUT… Weddings are also a sacred ceremony where heart and soul contracts are signed with love, and are eternal… In every lifetime. It’s so beautiful to see two people in love and wanting to share love, share pain, share happy and share sad times. It’s wear a couple says to each other… It does not matter what happens from here, I will always be here.
Have you ever laughed by yourself? It does seem odd doesn’t it? Its better to laugh with someone. It is also better to cry with someone.
True love is measured not by the bond of the relationship during good times, but during the times when it is hard to even stand.
A marriage is a union of body mind heart and soul. There are no sacrifices or compromises. There is only… LOVE and UNDERSTANDING. Both people involved want nothing more than to make each others dreams a reality. If fact one partner breathes in… The other breathes out. There is one. Marriage isnt about two people looking at each other in opposite directions, but two people looking in one direction with one vision. There isn’t t you or me or we in marriage. There is only I.
I say ‘I’ because there isnt two people but rather one. If one partner hurts, the othet cries, if one is joyous the other smiles.
Life isnt perfect. But perfect in its imperfections. We can never live everyday as described above… But wouldn’t it be ideal if we all thrived to live according to that ideal?
Marriage is a sacred promise to love without condition.
Marriage is the courage to share all of you.
To everyone getting married today, especially my friends Mel and Nash…
Congratulations on celebrating Love.
Love,
H